marriage

Rude Awakenings

September 1, 2009

I have decided that what is going on is that I am waking from a dream. Maybe several dreams. This is how I am thinking about it today, and maybe I will think about it differently tomorrow. But for now, I like to view the angst and pain and confusion I am feeling in my [...]

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Second Anniversary

July 7, 2009

It has been seven months since my marriage unraveled, and two years since the marriage itself. It’s been these past seven months that we have stitched our marriage back together. Not fine tailoring mind you, but not a complete hack job, either. I will admit though, that today’s marriage looks distinctly different than it did [...]

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Marriage.2

January 2, 2009

My task tonight, explaining the nigh-on unexplainable. If you’ve been following along at home, you know that on November 7th, my husband of 16 months announced that he didn’t want to be married. I’ve posted here now and again about the “process” of adjusting to his announcement–my sorrow, my bouncing about amid friends’ homes, my [...]

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let me count the ways

December 12, 2008

I do strive to see the beauty in all things, and sometimes my focus needs realignment so I can see beauty again. So I thought perhaps I ought to reflect on some of the things made me love my husband. He has great hair (sorry, inside joke–have to list that first). (But he does have [...]

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