did we stand in our own way?

February 2, 2010

I went to my ex-husband’s house tonight to retrieve a garment that I need on Saturday. He wasn’t home; he has been quite generous with coordinating our schedules so that I could be there alone (which is hard enough) and not have to interact with him in person. Anyway. I needed my catsuit to wear [...]

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the end.

January 21, 2010

The divorce was finalized just about 48 hours ago, and the grief is rolling in. I do not know really, why the marriage ended. The man who was my husband (I am not prepared to use the prefix, “ex”) might be flabbergasted to hear me say that–that I don’t know really why he had to [...]

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be careful what you say.

January 9, 2010

There was a comment on my blog recently that I hesitated to let be published–thinking it might disturb my brother. I finally chose to mention it to him, and am now making the comment public. The comment was left on this post where I rant and rail about my husband. I know who left it [...]

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keeping accounts

January 7, 2010

In June, 2008, I “retired”, upon my husband’s prompting. This retirement was a culmination of his (and my) desire to spend more time together and do more things together–combined with his assertions since the initial days of our commitment, when he said he would and could provide all the money the two of us needed. [...]

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but who’s counting?

December 31, 2009

It is 2:38 a.m. and I have been awake now for about an hour, after not quite three hours of sleep. Pretty much normal for me anymore, to sleep a few hours, wake, rustle around, sleep, wake, rustle rustle. It’s wearing on me. And I am feeling sad. There’s this thing that has been happening [...]

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what would tiger do (differently)?

December 29, 2009

I have certainly sung the woe-is-me tune, wondering how my husband could be off seeking other women so soon after leaving me, and how could he be reunited within weeks with his former sweetheart. More and more I attribute poor communication as a big factor in the “sudden” demise of my marriage. I am not [...]

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puddle. of. bliss.

December 19, 2009
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Just don’t tell me to behave

December 14, 2009

Friends in New York city.

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December 14, 2009

I lent my phone to my nephew yesterday, and today when I went to check my ToDo List I found this message.

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Blue, as the heart grows cold

December 13, 2009

Have you ever wondered about the real origins of snow angels? You know, that laying on the snow and flapping your arms into wings, leaving an impression of an angel? My cousin, Shanti Perez, award-winning author, blogger, and Etsy shopkeeper, wrote this piece. It might just explain how snow angels first came to earth. ∞ [...]

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